Everyone can make a difference

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Last September I decided to participate in the Shoppers One Walk to Conquer Cancer raising money to benefit Princess Margaret Cancer Centre. No, I didn’t walk the 25 km one day event (I know many who did) but as a part of a sweep team. A few of my friends have been doing it for years, one a breast cancer survivor and one with a lot of reasons in her personal life and I decided it was time to be part of something bigger.

It was raining as we arrived downtown to decorate our sweep team van that would be pink1spending the better part of the day in. Apparently it always rains. Maybe it is a good sign if it is raining, the higher power is speaking to us. Adversity makes you stronger. Sweep vans are driving the route ‘sweeping’ up walkers who need anything, a bottle of water, a snack, some moral support and a ride to the next stop on the route, we were there.

The sweep teams have themes and they decorate their vans and make them visible around the city. Our van was Halloween and I had a great time with all kinds of stickers, skeletons, even all kinds of candy in the van. It was going to be a great day with friends and supporting the walkers who are all there for their own reasons. That was evident every where you turned.

Groups of people walk together. They walk in memory of loved ones, survivors and those who didn’t survive. There are t-shirts with photos on them, women (and men) walking with bras on the outside of their shirts, ‘pink’ teams. Each and every one of the people I saw had a reason to be there. I don’t know anyone that has not been affected by cancer.

We drove around for a while after the day started and made our first pit stop visit. It was after that it was time to make our way to PMH. I was quite apprehensive to step out of the van when we first got there. If you have not experienced the walk before, the impact of arriving at the hospital takes your breath away.

Doctors, nurses, patients, families, they are there and they are cheering, loudly. Imagine pink3coming into the stadium at the final stretch of the Olympic Marathon. A bit dramatic, but not really. There are signs, lots and lots of signs, up and down the barricades.

There was this amazing wall that said I’M WALKING FOR and there were hundreds, maybe thousands of names of survivors, people who lost their battles, family members, friends. It was completely overwhelming. I was crying even before I got out of car as we walked up to the hospital.

pink7The doctors were standing on the steps of the hospital and there are bells ringing. that is very symbolic for Princess Margaret. The bell is called The Bravery Bell and if you don’t know what that is, it is the bell that you ring on your last day of chemo treatment. Maybe you know someone who has had the chance to ring the bravery bell.

The day was filled with great stories, and seeing people you know and shouting out the windows of the van, honking the horn and getting to yell at the top of your lungs, “let’s kick cancer in the ass”.

Lunch was at this amazing park and there were lots of fun vendors, give aways, and a chance for the walkers to catch their breath, put some band aids on their sore and aching feet and get up the strength to continue on.

Every time you make a decision to step out of your comfort zone and do something selfless instead of selfish, it makes you a better person. For a day I was there to support others who were being selfless and making a difference. One person can make a difference. There will always be fundraising needed in the world we live in. You can be a fundraiser and support with money and you can support with words of encouragement and be a part of the global picture of humanity.

 

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Truly Brave

What do you get when you team up talented musicians like Cyndi Lauper and Sara Bareilles and amazing TV personality and breast Cancer survivor Hoda Kotb to raise money and awareness for childhood cancers? You get something which is nothing short of breathtaking, outstanding and heartwarming.

If you haven’t seen the video yet, I will be sharing it below. It really doesn’t need any other explanation. It is Cyndi’s song True Colours, and Sara’s song Brave in a remarkable mashup song and video.

The words of the song speak volumes even without the video imaging, but the video is outstanding. If you are anything like me, you will need tissue. This video has been viewed 1, 602, 355 times. It is something that will make you smile, sing and probably tear up.

True Colours:

You with the sad eyes
Don’t be discouraged
Oh I realize
It’s hard to take courage
In a world full of people
You can lose sight of it all
And the darkness inside you
Can make you feel so small

But I see your true colors
Shining through
I see your true colors
And that’s why I love you
So don’t be afraid to let them show
Your true colors
True colors are beautiful,
Like a rainbow

Show me a smile then,
Don’t be unhappy, can’t remember
When I last saw you laughing
If this world makes you crazy
And you’ve taken all you can bear
You call me up
Because you know I’ll be there.

Brave:

You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody’s lack of love
Or you can start speaking up

Nothing’s gonna hurt you the way that words do
When they settle ‘neath your skin
Kept on the inside and no sunlight
Sometimes a shadow wins
But I wonder what would happen if you

Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly I wanna see you be brave

Everybody’s been there,
Everybody’s been stared down by the enemy
Fallen for the fear
And done some disappearing,
Bow down to the mighty
Don’t run, just stop holding your tongue

Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live
Maybe one of these days you can let the light in
Show me how big your brave is