Quiet Anniversaries

Social media isn’t something we can ignore. We have the choice of course to decide how how much we share and what we ‘choose’ to share. I have made some choices to share less than I have in the past and I think that I am going to choose to use this space more than my facebook feed to share aspects of my life moving forward.

Yesterday I was wishing two friends happy birthday greetings. After that I paused to remember another anniversary that shared the same day as these birthdays. It was the 15th anniversary of Aviva’s passing.

I was re-telling the story of that day to my friend last night. I know not everyone has the same memory recall as I do, but I can remember the story as if it happened yesterday. I do realize that some of that now is how we, human beings, live around the stories we write in our heads. The event is the event, in this case, that someone in our life has passed away. How we remember the events is the story that we carry forward.

Living memories are like video footage. The person is still with us, their voice can be recalled, their tone, and most of all, laughter. You can reach out and touch the memory because it feels so close, because it is. It is your present.

Memories of those who are passed still photos. Images that we have to piece the story together, because the narrators are not here to share the memory. it is your past.

Which is why we need to really live in the present. Be in the moments of your life and be present. Not every event will have a photo to recall the memory down the road, so create strong memories with the people in your life. Surround yourself with people that will challenge you, lift you up and push your forward.

My Travel Alphabet – A is for Antwerp

While out with a friend recently and I said something to the effect of – “I have a story…” to which she replied, “of course you do…” and what can I say other than I have a thirty year career in an industry that has given me a gift. A gift of life experiences that can be shared by telling my stories. For me, every experience is an opportunity for a story to be shared.

To get my creative brain in motion I started a list. It didn’t start out to be an alphabet list, but it soon became just that. Some letters have many thoughts and ideas that spilled out into my journal. This could take a while. This could be the start of this book that everyone says I should write. Time will tell.

But for now, we start at letter A – for Antwerp, Belgium.

I had an incredible opporunity to be invited by a travel agent friend to go on Viking River Cruise on the Rhine starting in Amsterdam. I could have also started this project with my time in Amsterdam, but maybe that will be for round two.

River cruises are unique experiences that if you have had a chance in your lifetime to experience, you must. You get up close and personal to the most amazing cities in Europe and beyond. Docking almost always in the centre of the city or town and offering one included excursion at each port.

We left the ship for our walking tour. Each guest has their own headset and the tour guide walks ahead and gives you all that you need to know without you missing anything if you walk slower or like myself and a couple of the ladies I met were busy taking photographs of everything. My obsession the first time I went to Europe was balconies, and on this trip it was windows and doors.

There appeared to be a lot of arts and culture in Antwerp as well as I saw lots of posters promoting ballet, musical theatre and movies.

As we progressed on our walk, there was one thing that was pretty clear to myself and the ladies I was walking with, we were passing a lot of great food along the way. When the group tour finished and they were walking back to the ship, we decided the better way to spend the rest of our time in Antwerp was to…eat our way through. Which we did.

Our tour ended right near an outdoor street vendor selling dried fruit and nuts. Of course we wanted to take photos of his goods, so we ‘had’ to purchase some goods and then take photos.

Our next stop was to have “Friet met Mayonaise” – or in English, fries with mayo. I know that recently there have been new mayo and ketchup combos and people in North America think it is a strange combo, but in Holland and Belgium it is perfectly normal to dip your fries in mayo. This one chip stand had about 10 different kinds of dipping sauces. We wanted to try them all, but you had to pay for the paper cups per sauce. So…we put as many kinds as we could in one cup.

Belgians are known for…chocolate of course. Leonidas is a very large Belgian chocolate chain. The tour guide likened it to ‘the Starbucks’ of Belgian chocolate shops. When in Rome, or in this case, Belgium, eat and buy chocolate.

We could not leave our food tour of Antwerp with, you guessed it, waffles. We walked past the cutest little shop on our walking tour in the morning, but it wasn’t open at that time. On our way back to the ship, it was open and ready for us to sample delicious waffles with all the fixings. It did not disappoint.

When I look back on my river cruise experience, I will always remember my day in Antwerp. It was a great mix of history, arts, culture and of course food.

I hope that tempted your appetite for what comes next…letter B of course.

Pictures are priceless

When I had my first interview at WE, as we were approaching the end I was asked, “We have heard about Lisa the travel professional, but tell us something about Lisa that interests you outside of that”. One friend said to me, do they have a day? Which is true. My answer was precise and to the point.

I like photography, I like food, I like taking pictures of food…..oh and I like adult colouring books. The more detailed the better.

For those who know me well, you know that I was very late to join the “Apple” generation. I finally gave in this past April. I will say that Heath would have had a great laugh when I made my purchase because he was all about the newest tech thing out there. I remember when the Iphone X was being released we were on the phone at midnight when it was released and he bought one.

There I am, at Best Buy talking to the resident phone geek. We were looking at the XR as the phone I would get and then I mentioned the camera. I know that the cameras are good, and that is important to me, very important. He then jumped over the XS. Walked in with a Blackberry and out with the newest Iphone.

I want to share two photos with you today. Pictures really are worth 1000 words. If you know me at all, you know there is a story. There always is.

This first photo was obviously taken in Washington. We had just been at the White House taking in the view and discussing our obsessions with Scandal and looking at the terrace where Fitz and Olivia would stand out on during the show and then begin to walk down Pennsylvania avenue to the memorials. As we were walking I found a great spot where we could have our “leaning Tower of Pisa” moment.

Move your finger up, no too much. Move to the left, no too much. I was laughing so hard I couldn’t even take the photo. As I was moving back, we lost the whole shot because he was yelling at me as I bumped into a lady on the street. The end result was this photo.

The second photo I want to share is a funny one considering my love of taking photos. This one is from our trip to Mexico in October 2017. We had such a great, relaxing week at the all inclusive resort, which was largely in part to us upgrading to a swim out suite, we had the most relaxing vacation I think I ever had.

It wasn’t until we were on the way to the airport that I said we didn’t even have one picture of us together. So, there we were, sitting at TGI Fridays eating lunch at the airport and we took this selfie. Relaxed and tan, it was funny.

I am happy to have a great camera on my phone now, so I don’t have to carry my camera in my purse all the time. If you know me, you know that is true, I bought a pocket canon camera to carry with me, because the camera on the Blackberry was so horrible.

Today I leave you with some more musical lyrics, this time from Green Day

So take the photographs and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good time
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For what it’s worth it was worth all the while

It’s something unpredictable, but in the end it’s right
I hope you had the time of your life