The Train of life

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I didn’t write this piece, but a friend posted this and I thought it was a great read and analogy.

The Train of Life

At birth we board a train and meet our parents. We believe they will always travel by our side. However, at some station, our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone.

As time goes by, other people will board the train, and they will be significant – siblings, friends, the love of your life, children, and many others. Some will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we won’t realize they vacated their seats.

The train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, good-byes, and farewells. A successful ride requires having a good relationship with all passengers. We must give the best of ourselves.

The mystery to everyone is, we do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way, love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.

I wish you a joyful journey on the train of life. Reap success and give lots of love. More importantly, thank God for the journey.

Lastly, I thank you for being one of the passengers on my train.

A forgiveness story

Rosh10690236_10152722614071138_7258925231864398889_nThis time of the year is at time for thought and introspection. As the photo says above, on Rosh Hashana it is written and on Yom Kippur it is sealed. I was just in the car this morning and was in my own thoughts and I thought I would share this story of forgiveness on the eve of the Day of Atonement.

A few months ago I received a private message on facebook from someone that I was no longer in contact with. The message was a very personal message that I know took a lot of thought and introspection to write to me. It was a time to realize how far we have come as people and that time does help us move forward. The things that I was once very angry about, about what was done “to me” moved to be something now that I can look back on as that was one moment in our lives. Moments in time can change our paths and direction but they don’t define us.

I did tell this person that they can move forward from this time in their life as well. That even though we may not be in each others lives the way we once were, that the time that we once had we learn from.

It is okay to ask for forgiveness and accept it when it is asked of you in return. It doesn’t always mean that you will rekindle a relationship with that person, maybe you will and maybe you won’t. It does allow you to move forward in your own life and putting each chapter of the book of your own life into perspective.

On this eve of the day of Atonement I will end with this:

“To all those who I hurt or offended in any way, gave you too much or not enough attention, disrespected or didn’t judge to the good– please, please forgive me. I am trying, but always imperfect. Here’s to a year where we all rise!”

Cobb Salad

 

For some reason, my body clock resets itself around 4:30 am. No matter what time I go to bed, I seem to be getting up around that time. Over the summer I have been putting my tv on and trying to clear the shows on my PVR. Sometimes I scroll through facebook, it depends. 

Today I was on facebook. There was a link from the Epicurious.com facebook page called The Best Theme park food to be found. As a foodie and a travel agent, I opened the link. It mentioned the Brown Derby Restaurant in Disney’s Hollywood Studios that serves signature dishes like the Cobb Salad named for one time owner Robert Cobb. 

So, I started to look up the origins of the Cobb Salad and here is what I found out: 

One night in 1937, Bob Cobb, then owner of The Brown Derby, prowled hungrily in his restaurant’s kitchen for a snack. Opening the huge refrigerator, he pulled out this and that: a head of lettuce, an avocado, some romaine, watercress, tomatoes, some cold breast of chicken, a hard-boiled egg, chives, cheese and some old-fashioned French dressing. He started chopping. Added some crisp bacon — swiped from a busy chef.

Cobb Salads have been reproduced all over North America in many different forms. I know that here in Toronto, Pickle Barrel makes a pretty good version. They also seem to have a modern spin on it with Quinoa now – which sounds a bit healthier – grilled asparagus, sautéed mixed mushrooms, sundried tomatoes, English cucumber, cherry tomatoes and feta. Served with mixed greens and herb vinaigrette dressing.

Of course the Brown Derby chain is long gone, but thanks to theme parks like Hollywood Studios, people can go in and experience the “disney” version of old hollywood tradition. 

Food for thought – ideas have to start somewhere! 

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Original Brown Derby Cobb Salad

1/2 head lettuce, about 4 cups

1 bunch watercress

1 small bunch chicory, about 2 1/2 cups

1/2 head romaine, about 2 1/2 cups

2 medium peeled tomatoes

6 strips of crisp bacon
2 breasts of boiled chicken

3 hard cooked eggs

1 avocado

1/2 cup crumbled Roquefort cheese

2 tablespoons chopped chives

1 cup (approximately) Original Cobb Salad Dressing

Cut lettuce, half the watercress, chicory and romaine in fine pieces and arrange in a large salad bowl.

Cut tomatoes, bacon, chicken, eggs, and avocado in small pieces and arrange, along with the crumbled Roquefort cheese, in strips on the greens.

Sprinkle finely cut chives over the Cobb salad and garnish with the remaining watercress.

Just before serving mix the salad with the Cobb salad dressing.


Original Cobb Salad Dressing

Makes 1 1/2 cups

1/4 cup water

1/4 cup red wine vinegar

1/4 teaspoon sugar

1 teaspoon freshly squeezed lemon juice

2 teaspoons salt

3/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
3/4 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce

1/4 teaspoon dry English mustard

1 small clove garlic, finely minced

1/4 cup full-flavored olive oil

3/4 cup salad oil

Blend all ingredients together, except oils. Add olive and salad oils. Mix well.

Blend well again before mixing with salad.

A note from the Brown Derby: “The water is optional, depending upon the degree of oiliness desired in the dressing.”