The Enemy you know

As you know, I work for a Jewish organization. Today I was talking to a new staff member who has been at the org for three weeks. Her first day at the office was Wednesday October 11th. I can’t imagine how that must have been for her, to walk into Jewish organization right after the lows of the weekend, and then the emotional highs of the rally in support of Israel on Monday October 9th. I jokingly said to her, if you can make it through this, you can make it through anything this job is going to throw at you.

For me, it is hard to believe I will be celebrating one year in a few short weeks. I talk to my mom on the way home from work each day, catching up on the days events and I keep telling her that even though it is hard and emotional, I am grateful that I work with Jewish people. I can’t imagine what working in my previous job would be like right now. That is a conversation for another post.

We are currently having weekly town hall meetings which are very important. They are updates from senior team members on important details that applies to all areas of the organization. I wanted to share two stories from today. They are just a snippet of the conversations that are happening each day, and perhaps how you may be feeling right now or conversations you may want to have, but don’t have people to have them with.

The Enemy you know

The first story happened in the elevator on the way to the meeting. I was in the elevator and one of the managers was talking to another manager about a conversation she had with one of her friends in Israel. As they were talking about the protests around the world, the protests and the hatred, as we as the increased police and security presence in the community. The Israeli said this, “at least here we know who the enemy is, for you, the enemy could be anyone”. I am sure we have all had this thought the past few weeks. I know I have.

I had tickets to a play on Sunday, downtown at Yonge and Dundas. I drive downtown all the time, and park and walk all around the area. I didn’t know if we would encounter any uncomfortable issues on the way to the play or after it was over. The Yonge-Dundas square area was actually quieter than I thought it would be and as we walked to the car after the play we crossed through the square and I said, I thought that we may encounter something here. I am glad I was wrong.

Hang your Mezuzah proudly

There have been a lot of false stories making their way around social media. I don’t want to get into that here, but if you go to UJA’s website you will see all of the ways you can stay connected to everything in the community, as well as the phone numbers to call if you need to report anything you see. But before you report anything, make sure you check your sources.

For those who may not know, if you have ever entered a Jewish building, or a Jewish home you would notice a Mezuzah (door post) on the right side of the doorway upon entering the home, or rooms in the home. The mezuzah is the symbol that this is a Jewish home (or dwelling) and is a visible sign and symbol to all those who enter that a sense of Jewish identity and commitment exists in that household.  

The Rabbi shared a story about a conversation he had with someone in the community. The person said that someone asked him if he planned on taking his mezuzah down in fear of his home being attacked because he was Jewish. The person replied, heck no, I would like to hang two of them. I understand his point of view. We want to scream from the rooftops in outrage from our government, our universities, so many other people. We shouldn’t be surprised, yet somehow we still are.

I am open to have a conversation with you if you want to reach out to me. For the first time in my life, I feel like I have a place that I belong. Being in the Jewish community in a time in history that has never mattered more.

Am Israel Chai – The Jewish people yet live

Humanity is broken

I was doing pretty well today. This weekend I spent less time on social media, less time watching the news and more time for self care. I spent quite a bit of time in my car because it in Toronto it takes an hour to get to Toronto. I didn’t even care, because it meant music with the windows open.

After spending the day going to the dentist, getting my hair cut, buying a new lipstick (yipick) and grocery shopping, I got home when it was getting dark (too early) and then put the television on. That was when I heard about the Detroit Synagogue president who had been murdered outside her house, on Shabbat. The headlines from multiple sources say “No Evidence of a hate crime has emerged in the killing”. I understand that she had a career in state and local politics, as well as in the Muslim community. Maybe it wasn’t a hate crime, maybe it was, it doesn’t change the fact that another innocent life was taken.

Sunday was downtown to see In Dreams at CAA Ed Mirvish Theatre. As we were driving down Bathurst Street we approached Sheppard Avenue and on all sides of the street were people waving Israeli flags and cheering. I turned to my friend and said, “well at least up here we know we are loved”. After all of the protests downtown this past week I wasn’t sure what we would find at Yonge and Dundas. Thankfully, we found nothing except for a wonderful play.

Today was back at the office and the day went by pretty fast. It wasn’t until I was in my car and I opened Instagram to this opening video of a man being viciously assaulted in Chicago by savage animals at a pro-Palestine rally. I wanted to scroll past the horror, but I couldn’t. It’s a good thing that the windows were closed because the swearing I was spewing into to the phone I will not repeat here. My heart hurts. My head hurts. My soul hurts.

I am just going to leave this here for now. I have just spent the last hour on a webinar from UJA. There is HUGE mobilization happening in Toronto now. If you want to stay informed in everything that is going on during this time in our lives I would encourage you to sign up here.

Smartless…on the road

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I went into a restaurant to meet a friend last weekend and there was a random partition separating two tables. It was the only one in the restaurant and it stood out. I turned to my friend and said, “that is so 2020.” We both had a laugh, and thankfully, for the most part, it is true. There are a lot of life changes that happened over the course of the pandemic and some are part of our new post pandemic world.

Podcasting was not a new media forum in 2020, it dates back to 2004, but with the world in lock down, thousands found an outlet on how to communicate with not just each other, but audiences around the world who they would have otherwise never touched.

There are podcasts for every genre and anything you are personally interested in. I follow many different podcasts and keep adding more to the list. Of the many I follow, I just wanted to touch on one that is hilarious, called Smartless. This stars Jason Bateman, Wil Arnett and Sean Hayes, that are all very good friends IRL (In real life) and took the pandemic lock down as an opportunity to spend time together, apart. Apple named it one of best shows of 2020. Each week the three get together remotely to give each other a hard time, and one of them brings on a guest that is a surprise to the other two. Guests are a range of notables ranging from Jimmy Kimmel, Neil De Grasse Tyson, Kamala Harris to name drop a few.

In the winter of 2022, the three stars decided to take their podcast on the road and filmed it. They were supposed to come to Toronto on their tour (Wil Arnett is Canadian) but because of the strict Covid border rules, were not able to come. The good news was that it was being filmed as a docuseries for release.

It premiered on HBO back in May 2023. I couldn’t wait to watch it and starting searching for it on the release date, but alas…not available on HBO Max Canada. I was disappointed, and put it to the back burner for shows I may not get to see.

Why I am telling you all of this you may be asking?

Yesterday I was tired of doom scrolling and watching the never ending news loop, so I decided to check out what was on Crave and guess what, Smartless on the road is available in Canada!!!! I got comfortable on my sofa and and settled in with Wil, Jason and Sean. It is a short series (6 episodes) but if you listen to them on a regular basis, you will laugh out loud as you follow them around the US on their tour. I laughed out loud many times and six episodes flew by in a snap.

I will be sharing more about the different podcasts I subscribe to, and if you have one that you love, I would love to hear about it. I am always looking for new and interesting hosts and content.

Off to find something to listen to,

Until next time,