Baby and Johnny Live Happily Ever After

On this day in 1987 the movie Dirty Dancing premiered. It is funny to look back now being 16 when this movie came out. I was working at a summer day camp and remember vividly seeing this with my friends at Promenade Mall. My 16 year old niece is the same age that I was at that time, working at summer camp for the first time this year. She was also a bus captain, just like I was back in 1987.

In July I went to a cottage resort with my friends. We booked the cottage back in January. We had no idea at that time that we would have been in a stay at home, provincial lock down for the most of the next five months. Thankfully the provincial guidelines allowed us to keep our booked time away from the city.

On the way home from a restful cottage stay we were driving and listening to the radio when the theme song from Dirty Dancing came on, “I’ve had the time of my life”. My friend sitting in the front sit alongside me says to me, “I wonder if Baby and Johnny are still maried?” I stopped singing and looked at him and said, “Baby and Johnny got married?” It is one of my all time favourite movies and I can recite parts of the movie by heart, but I thought I missed something somewhere along the way.

I asked him, “What makes you think they get marrried?” He replied that he likes to think about what happens to the characters at the end of a movie or book that he reads. That got me thinking and the conversation continued. I started to think about the all characters in the movie and what happened after that summer in 1963.

Baby – Did she go home from the Catskills, ditch the name Baby and start calling herself Frances, since she was no longer in the corner and no longer a baby but a woman? Did she join the Peace Corps and change the world?

Johnny – Did he go home after losing his job, but getting the final dance with Baby and the apology from her father to join the local 179 House painters and Plasters union? My friend’s suggestion was that he became a choregrapher for the Radio City Rockettes.

Did they get together after the summer was over or was it a summer fling? I am thinking probably not. I wonder if Baby’s father could come around and accept Johnny as a worthy suiter of his daughter.

Let’s say they did stay together and get married. They would have had their honeymoon in Kellerman’s and maybe started a new tradition bringing their kids there each summer. Maybe Max’s nephew takes over and realizes that no one in the mid 60’s is interested in dancing the Pachanga afterall.

Rabbit. I jumped into the rabbit hole and then I thought about Penny. Was she able to have children after what happened to her in that back alley clinic? I know, now I have you thinking about what happened to them after spending the summer in the Borscht Belt. (google that if you don’t know what it is).

Later on after I dropped my friends off another song came on the radio, “Don’t you forget about me” which of course had me thinking about the characters after they left detention that fateful Saturday in the Breakfast Club.

John Bender (Rebel) – Claire asked if he would say hi to Brian in the hall on Monday when he was with his stoner friends? How about Clarie, would she acknowledge him in the hall while walking with her preppy friends?

Would Andrew (Jock) recognize and acknowledge Allison in the hall when he is walking to the football field with the jocks? Was Allison really as weird as she led us to believe or did she just wanted to be accepted for who she was, just like all of us who feel like an outsider in life.

And Brian? Would he go back to his books and A+ studies or would he realize that he can live life on the adventurous side without carrying a flare gun to school.

And there you have it folks. Writing this has left me with more questions than answers to some of my favourite movies. I may need to circle back to this with some other what happened to….

Like the ubran legend of the movie Grease that Sandy really dies in at the beach when Danny couldn’t save her and the rest of the movie is her dream sequence? Have you heard that one?

What movie(s) have you thinking about their happily ever afters?

Six Months into Mid Life

If you are on social even for ten minutes a day, you know that it is full of memes. There are people ‘out there’ that are very talented in creating memes that can become viral for good and not so good reasons. One meme from a while back was How it started, How its going. Basically two funny images (or even personal photos) of a before and after scenario in life.

You might be thinking to yourself, why is she starting off this blog with an explanation about memes. Well, as a storyteller, this is part of the set up of the story.

On December 23, 2020 I came in close contact with a person who had tested positive for Covid-19. Of course I had to go and get tested, which I did the next day. Not that there was much going on in terms of ‘holiday plans’ but I did have plans with my bubbled household to spend Christmas with them and probably New Years Eve as well. When you have been in close contact with a positive person, even if you are negative, you have to be in isolation for 14 days. Which is exactly what I did.

The truth is being in isolation wasn’t such a stretch for me. I was pretty used it in January. Leaving the apartment once a week for groceries, an occasional bagel run, and perhaps to the deli. Because we were in a stay at home order I wasn’t even having dinner with my parents (well after isolation of course).

While I was at home in isolation I started to think about my upcoming birthday and approaching 50. I opened my journal and made a brainstorm list of blog ideas to do a countdown of 50 thoughts on 50. I was looking forward to starting the posts on Feburary 1st and blog daily up to my birthday on the 27th. Great plan, right? I thought so.

The goal was to write 10,000 words before my birthday at the end of the month. I wrote my first post on February 1st, setting up the tone for the month and to get my creative juices flowing. The same day as my Covid symptoms started. I had no idea on that day what I was about to hit me, literally like a ton of bricks. All hope of the blog countdown to 50 went out the window as fast as it started.

I have shared parts of my Covid journey here in The Lisa Chronicles, some on social media and if you are friend of mine, you know much more of the story and my journey. A journey that has sparked a new list of 50 thoughts on 50 the past six months.

Six months, 12 months, 18 months. This is how long we have all been in the stranglehold of this pandemic. Life is starting to look different than it has. I have enjoyed the few patios I have been able to enjoy with friends that I haven’t seen in a long time. I can tell you that my ‘foodie’ spirit hasn’t recoved from the pandemic and my covid experience after six months. Nothing tastes the same. I don’t really talk about it, but if you have had covid or know someone that has lost their tastebuds I have two words for you, it sucks.

To bring this post back full circle I will leave you with this:

How it started: January 2021 – 50 thoughts on turning 50 – never started

How it is going: August 2021 – six month later, more than just 50 thoughts on turning 50 coming your way to The Lisa Chronicles soon.

I am not going to set a 10,000 word goal this time. I am going to write when the keyboard directs me.

Until then, stay safe and please if you haven’t gotten your shots yet, please be like Nike and just do it.