I am currently sitting in my home office/den/collector of all things that don’t have a home in my apartment. I am trying to clean up this space, well, all the spaces in my home. I am starting to think about the next ‘home’ that may be in my future, and before I can do that, I have to fix up this space.

For some people, they don’t have ‘messes’ in their homes. They have found a way to detach themselves from things that have happened in their lives, trips they may have taken, shows they may have seen, paperwork that perhaps they have should have kept, but no longer have. That is not me.

I am currently sifting through piles of ‘stuff’. By trying to declutter, I have actually made a much bigger mess.

There are people that specialize in helping people ‘clean their messes’. One of them is Peter Walsh. He is a tv personality from Clean Sweep and has his own show on OWN. He goes into people’s homes and he helps them find their way out of their “messes”.

I like to keep things because they remind me of the good memories associated with them – like programs from plays I have seen, like the map I just found from Pere Lachaise Cemetary in Paris, to birthday cards, thank you cards, invitations to events and celebrations. These are times that have made me happy, and I think that keeping them will allow me to remember that time. Is that silly? I don’t know, it is all party of my history. The events of my life.

What about the Food and Wine magazines that I enjoy, or the newspaper articles in the travel section, or memorial sections, etc. I guess I could read them one more time and then put them in the garbage bag.

This is much harder than I thought. I haven’t REALLY done this in a long time. I would tidy up here and there, throw out a few bags of garbage and just put the rest of the stuff back where it was. I think I need to really get rid of the ‘stuff’….but how is the question of the day?

I guess I should get off the computer now, and back to the piles that have been creeping up around me tonight.

Maybe you are just like me, and have to go through your messes. If you have any suggestions, please feel free to share what has worked for you in the past.

I am open to ideas…..

Until next time,