A friend of mine posted this saying on facebook today. I am not going to make a big deal by sharing this post on facebook or twitter, but if you happen to read my blog, here you are.

“If someone wants to be a part of your life, they’ll make an effort to be in it. So don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for someone that doesn’t make an effort.”

I think we all have times when we all may fall into this category and I think we should be mindful when this may be happening. If you want to change the pattern, change. If you don’t, then you probably won’t change the pattern and your friendships will probably change as well.